diff --git a/libdino/src/service/calls.vala b/libdino/src/service/calls.vala
index 3615e24f..26a0492a 100644
--- a/libdino/src/service/calls.vala
+++ b/libdino/src/service/calls.vala
@@ -185,8 +185,8 @@ namespace Dino {
                 if (stream == null) return;
 
                 string sid = sid_by_call[call.account][call];
-                stream.get_module(Xep.JingleMessageInitiation.Module.IDENTITY).send_session_reject_to_self(stream, sid);
                 stream.get_module(Xep.JingleMessageInitiation.Module.IDENTITY).send_session_reject_to_peer(stream, call.counterpart, sid);
+                stream.get_module(Xep.JingleMessageInitiation.Module.IDENTITY).send_session_reject_to_self(stream, sid);
                 remove_call_from_datastructures(call);
             }
         }
@@ -632,6 +632,11 @@ namespace Dino {
             mi_module.session_rejected.connect((from, to, sid) => {
                 if (!call_by_sid[account].has_key(sid)) return;
                 Call call = call_by_sid[account][sid];
+
+                bool outgoing_reject = call.direction == Call.DIRECTION_OUTGOING && from.equals_bare(call.counterpart);
+                bool incoming_reject = call.direction == Call.DIRECTION_INCOMING && from.equals_bare(account.bare_jid);
+                if (!(outgoing_reject || incoming_reject)) return;
+
                 call.state = Call.State.DECLINED;
                 remove_call_from_datastructures(call);
                 call_terminated(call, null, null);
@@ -639,6 +644,11 @@ namespace Dino {
             mi_module.session_retracted.connect((from, to, sid) => {
                 if (!call_by_sid[account].has_key(sid)) return;
                 Call call = call_by_sid[account][sid];
+
+                bool outgoing_retract = call.direction == Call.DIRECTION_OUTGOING && from.equals_bare(call.counterpart);
+                bool incoming_retract = call.direction == Call.DIRECTION_INCOMING && from.equals_bare(account.bare_jid);
+                if (!(outgoing_retract || incoming_retract)) return;
+
                 call.state = Call.State.MISSED;
                 remove_call_from_datastructures(call);
                 call_terminated(call, null, null);
diff --git a/xmpp-vala/src/module/xep/0353_jingle_message_initiation.vala b/xmpp-vala/src/module/xep/0353_jingle_message_initiation.vala
index e26be515..71e16a95 100644
--- a/xmpp-vala/src/module/xep/0353_jingle_message_initiation.vala
+++ b/xmpp-vala/src/module/xep/0353_jingle_message_initiation.vala
@@ -17,47 +17,35 @@ namespace Xmpp.Xep.JingleMessageInitiation {
                 propose_node.put_node(desc_node);
             }
 
-            MessageStanza accepted_message = new MessageStanza() { to=to };
+            MessageStanza accepted_message = new MessageStanza() { to=to, type_=MessageStanza.TYPE_CHAT };
             accepted_message.stanza.put_node(propose_node);
             stream.get_module(MessageModule.IDENTITY).send_message.begin(stream, accepted_message);
         }
 
         public void send_session_retract_to_peer(XmppStream stream, Jid to, string sid) {
-            MessageStanza retract_message = new MessageStanza() { to=to };
-            retract_message.stanza.put_node(
-                    new StanzaNode.build("retract", NS_URI).add_self_xmlns()
-                            .put_attribute("id", sid, NS_URI));
-            stream.get_module(MessageModule.IDENTITY).send_message.begin(stream, retract_message);
+            send_jmi_message(stream, "retract", to, sid);
         }
 
         public void send_session_accept_to_self(XmppStream stream, string sid) {
-            MessageStanza accepted_message = new MessageStanza() { to=Bind.Flag.get_my_jid(stream).bare_jid };
-            accepted_message.stanza.put_node(
-                    new StanzaNode.build("accept", NS_URI).add_self_xmlns()
-                            .put_attribute("id", sid, NS_URI));
-            stream.get_module(MessageModule.IDENTITY).send_message.begin(stream, accepted_message);
+            send_jmi_message(stream, "accept", Bind.Flag.get_my_jid(stream).bare_jid, sid);
         }
 
         public void send_session_reject_to_self(XmppStream stream, string sid) {
-            MessageStanza accepted_message = new MessageStanza() { to=Bind.Flag.get_my_jid(stream).bare_jid };
-            accepted_message.stanza.put_node(
-                    new StanzaNode.build("reject", NS_URI).add_self_xmlns()
-                            .put_attribute("id", sid, NS_URI));
-            stream.get_module(MessageModule.IDENTITY).send_message.begin(stream, accepted_message);
+            send_jmi_message(stream, "reject", Bind.Flag.get_my_jid(stream).bare_jid, sid);
         }
 
         public void send_session_proceed_to_peer(XmppStream stream, Jid to, string sid) {
-            MessageStanza accepted_message = new MessageStanza() { to=to };
-            accepted_message.stanza.put_node(
-                    new StanzaNode.build("proceed", NS_URI).add_self_xmlns()
-                            .put_attribute("id", sid, NS_URI));
-            stream.get_module(MessageModule.IDENTITY).send_message.begin(stream, accepted_message);
+            send_jmi_message(stream, "proceed", to, sid);
         }
 
         public void send_session_reject_to_peer(XmppStream stream, Jid to, string sid) {
-            MessageStanza accepted_message = new MessageStanza() { to=to };
+            send_jmi_message(stream, "reject", to, sid);
+        }
+
+        private void send_jmi_message(XmppStream stream, string name, Jid to, string sid) {
+            MessageStanza accepted_message = new MessageStanza() { to=to, type_=MessageStanza.TYPE_CHAT };
             accepted_message.stanza.put_node(
-                    new StanzaNode.build("reject", NS_URI).add_self_xmlns()
+                    new StanzaNode.build(name, NS_URI).add_self_xmlns()
                             .put_attribute("id", sid, NS_URI));
             stream.get_module(MessageModule.IDENTITY).send_message.begin(stream, accepted_message);
         }
@@ -95,7 +83,6 @@ namespace Xmpp.Xep.JingleMessageInitiation {
                     session_retracted(message.from, message.to, mi_node.get_attribute("id"));
                     break;
                 case "reject":
-                    if (!message.from.equals_bare(Bind.Flag.get_my_jid(stream))) return;
                     session_rejected(message.from, message.to, mi_node.get_attribute("id"));
                     break;
             }